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To design, prepare, and deliver a great presentation, you’ve got to commit yourself to the task. If you go in half-hearted or, worse, dreading it, your negative attitude will show in the final product. This is the subject of today’s email from Melissa Cullen:
In this article, we’ll look at how to adopt a positive mindset about speaking.
Shift Your Vocabulary, Shift Your AttitudeAs I was trying to choose between several reader questions for this article, I popped over to one of my favorite blogs by Michael Hyatt. His article — How a Shift in Your Vocabulary Can Instantly Change Your Attitude — addresses Melissa’s question. Michael writes:
I agree with Michael entirely. While it may also be a duty, we must remember that every opportunity to speak is a privilege to be relished. It’s an opportunity to put our ideas forward. It’s an opportunity to start a dialogue to solve problems. It’s an opportunity to motivate others into action. Adopting a positive attitude will reap a bounty of rewards for you. Not only will the effort to plan and prepare your presentation seem less onerous, but you’ll be energized and excited when it’s your time to speak. Framing the opportunity as a privilege also makes you more audience-focused, and that’s always a good thing. More Vocabulary Shifts for SpeakersFraming a speaking opportunity as a privilege takes care of the big picture, but you can apply the same vocabulary switch to other elements of the speaking process. “Every opportunity to speak is a privilege to be relished.” For example: Instead of: Editing my speech takes too much time. Instead of: I have to present a report on my team’s progress bi-weekly. Instead of: I hate when people nitpick my speech. Instead of: Text slides are easier to prepare. Instead of: Everyone in the audience is judging me. Instead of: My nerves show how much I want to flee. Instead of: I doubt many people in the audience will be persuaded. Instead of: I have to fill thirty minutes on the agenda with my presentation. Instead of: I fear getting asked a question which I can’t answer. Instead of: I’d like to be paid to speak. | |
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